The number one thing you can do to protect your children during a divorce is to prioritize their well-being and minimize their exposure to conflict. This can be achieved by: 


  1. Focusing on their needs: Put your children's needs first and make decisions that will have a positive impact on their lives. Avoid making your children pawns in your disputes or exposing them to negative or hostile behavior. 
  2. Encouraging open communication: Encourage open and honest communication with your children and listen to their concerns and feelings. Reassure them that the divorce is not their fault and that you both love them. 
  3. Maintaining stability: Try to maintain a stable and predictable routine for your children, especially when it comes to their schooling, activities, and relationships. 
  4. Seeking support: Consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor who can provide support and guidance for you and your children. 
  5. Cooperating with your co-parent: Collaborate with your co-parent to ensure that your children have a positive and stable relationship with both of you. Avoid speaking negatively about your co-parent in front of your children (or where they might overhear) and work together to create a positive and supportive environment. 


If you would like help on how to protect your children from the unnecessary and devastating effects of conflict on children, contact us at: moreinfo@evolved-law.com

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